"The cosmos is within us. We are made of star-stuff. We are a way for the universe to know itself."

-Carl Sagan

About Star Stuff Counseling PLLC

Carl Sagan once wrote, “The nitrogen in our DNA, the calcium in our teeth, the iron in our blood, the carbon in our apple pie were all in the interiors of collapsing stars. We are made of star stuff.” We humans are awe-inspiring and complicated creatures and are all connected in this amazing galaxy. However, sometimes we forget how awesome we are. We can feel disconnected and lonely. We can face trauma or other life challenges that make us forget our true selves. Therapy can be a good thing as it can help us connect back to our true selves (our North Star) and help us feel more connected and grounded. This allows us to see life through a clearer lens and helps us process our experiences in a calmer state of mind.

Modalities

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Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing (EMDR) is a proven, effective therapy that helps people heal from trauma and other deeply distressing life experiences. Backed by extensive research, EMDR is particularly effective for treating conditions like PTSD, anxiety, and emotional pain related to past events.

Unlike traditional talk therapy, EMDR uses guided eye movements or other forms of bilateral stimulation to help the brain process and reframe difficult memories. This innovative approach helps reduce the emotional intensity of those memories, allowing individuals to feel relief and regain control over their lives.

Whether you’ve experienced trauma, grief, or stress, EMDR offers a path toward healing and emotional freedom.

Attachment theory helps us understand how the bonds we form with caregivers in early life shape the way we connect with others throughout our lives. A secure attachment with a caregiver provides a foundation for trust, safety, and healthy emotional development, influencing how we build and maintain relationships as adults.

In the context of adoption, attachment can be especially important. Adopted children may have experienced disruptions in early caregiving or transitions that affect their sense of security. These early experiences can shape their ability to trust, regulate emotions, and form healthy connections with others.

The good news is that with patience, consistency, and nurturing, people can foster secure attachments. These strong, loving relationships not only help people feel safe and valued but also lay the groundwork for positive relationships throughout their lives.

Somatic Experiencing (SE) is a body-centered therapy designed to help people recover from trauma and stress by focusing on the connection between the mind and body. When we experience trauma or overwhelming events, our bodies can hold onto that stress, even long after the event has passed. This can lead to feelings of tension, anxiety, or being "stuck."

SE gently helps people tune into physical sensations in their body, such as tightness, warmth, or energy, to release stored stress and restore a sense of balance and calm. Unlike talk therapy, SE works by helping the body process these sensations rather than just discussing the events.

By addressing trauma at its root — in the nervous system — Somatic Experiencing provides a path to healing that feels natural and empowering. It’s especially helpful for those who feel overwhelmed, stuck, or disconnected, offering relief and helping them feel more grounded and present in their lives.

Narrative Therapy is a type of counseling that helps people see their lives as stories they can shape and rewrite. We all create stories about ourselves based on our experiences, and sometimes these stories can focus on problems or challenges that make us feel stuck, overwhelmed, or defined by difficulties.

In Narrative Therapy, you work with a therapist to explore the stories you’ve been telling yourself. Together, you identify how these stories influence your thoughts, feelings, and actions. The goal is to uncover strengths, values, and alternative perspectives that might be hidden by problem-focused narratives.

By reframing your story, Narrative Therapy empowers you to see yourself not as the problem but as the author of your life, capable of making meaningful changes. It’s a collaborative, strengths-based approach that helps you take control of your narrative and move toward a more positive and fulfilling future.

Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT) is a modern approach to therapy that helps people handle difficult thoughts and feelings in healthier ways while focusing on living a meaningful life. Instead of trying to eliminate uncomfortable emotions or thoughts, ACT encourages acceptance of what you can’t control and commitment to actions that align with your values.

ACT is based on the idea that struggling to avoid pain often makes it worse. By learning mindfulness techniques and developing psychological flexibility, you can create space for emotions and thoughts without letting them control you. This helps you focus on what really matters, like relationships, personal growth, or goals that give your life purpose.

Whether you're dealing with anxiety, depression, stress, or life transitions, ACT provides tools to help you move forward with clarity and courage, even in the face of challenges.

Internal Family Systems (IFS) Therapy is a unique approach that helps people understand and heal their inner emotional world. It’s based on the idea that we all have different “parts” of ourselves, like the inner critic, the caregiver, or the part that holds pain. These parts are like members of an internal family, each with its own feelings, needs, and roles.

Sometimes, these parts can be in conflict or carry burdens from past experiences, making us feel stuck, overwhelmed, or at odds with ourselves. IFS helps you connect with your “Self,” the calm, compassionate core of who you are, to better understand and heal these parts.

By building a caring relationship with your parts, you can release old patterns, reduce emotional distress, and feel more balanced and whole. IFS is a gentle, empowering therapy that helps you create harmony within yourself and approach life with greater self-understanding and confidence.